Fight for what you love

The past few weeks have been emotionally draining for me. As a first-generation Ukrainian, the Russian invasion of Ukraine has put me into a state that is much like mourning. War is tragic, regardless of your connection to it. However, it becomes personal when it affects members of your family. Yet, like with any other obstacle or challenge, there is a lesson.

The fight for freedom

My uncle was born into the Soviet State of Ukraine and was elated when he gained his freedom in 1991. He took that as an opportunity to build a professional business in Dentistry, which employed many of his friends and some of his family. It became very successful and he created a tremendous life filled with many of the trappings of the West. He travelled throughout Europe and the U.S., taught Dentistry at some of the best schools, and owns multiple homes and land. Yet, in the blink of an eye, he stands to lose it all. The Russian invasion has destroyed his way of life and the life of his family.

I spoke with my mom, who lives in the U.S., and asked her what he is going to do. She said one word…fight. He is going to fight for his country because he would rather die as a free man than live under communist rule. That hit me like a ton of bricks and put everything back into perspective.

I hold all the people in Ukraine in my prayers for their current suffering. Their resolve and commitment to their freedom is inspiring. The most important lesson I’m taking from the current geopolitical turmoil is that your heart will break many times along your journey. Regardless, you must continue the fight for what is important.

• If success is important, fight for it.
• If your family is important, fight for it.
• If your freedom is important, fight for it.

You may not always win. But, the most important thing you can do is commit to the fight.